Positivity will make you weaker, but bad experiences are what will shape us better. You need to face challenges daily to become stronger. Positive words will always bless you, but they can also make you weaker.
To become the person you want to be, you need to experience bad situations, disadvantages, and difficult people. A tough boss can help you grow until you are strong. Be cautious when everything is going well for you; it may not last. What do you want to do when things get tough?
Some people consider suicide when they lose everything, thinking it’s the end. Instead, learn to master the art of losing and bouncing back. You need to experience serious setbacks and rejection to grow. To make the most of life, you need to be willing to take risks and face challenges head-on.
Your life story should be a book that people can learn from. Your life should be full of wins, but we both know that victory doesn’t come easily. People who win are those who work hard and persevere. Don’t feel like you’re a success if you haven’t put in the effort. Take on tasks that challenge you and help you grow.
I used to wonder why every department I joined was so tough. Then I started a business that was bigger than my current capacity. I realized I’m attracted to big challenges. Comfort can kill your potential and reduce your capacity. I lost relationships because I couldn’t keep them. People thought there was something wrong with me.
Someone told a new client that I would disappoint them 150%. I lost money and was left to figure things out on my own. It was a messy situation, and I felt like giving up at a young age. But I learned that life is fair, and I messed up. I regret my mistakes, but I’m learning from them.
Something need to stare you up and provoke the capacity hiding inside of you.
